I was recently honored to be a guest on the Starlight Pet Talk podcast, talking about where fear in dogs comes from, how trauma affects some dogs, while also emphasizing how resilient dogs can be and how we can help them adjust to their new lives. Amy, the...
Can dogs be racist? This is a question I get from clients when they sheepishly bring this up in consults and sort of whisper "I think my dog is a racist." I assure them, first, that they're not alone and second, that as embarrassing as this is, that isn't...
I was recently honored to be a guest on the The Pet Loss Companion podcast, talking about my personal grief journey with BooBoo, why I think it's important to share it, my companion animal Advance Care Directive and why I am passionate about planning and...
Navigating the loss of a beloved animal is never easy but it can be even harder when there are children in the family. Often the death of a pet is the first loss a child will experience and as an end-of-life death doula for animals, my strong belief is that...
If your dog growls, freezes, eats faster or tries to bite if you approach him when he's eating, then it's possible he's guarding his food. Food guarding is a completely normal and very common dog behavior but it understandably upsets owners and in some...
Turid Rugaas, a Norwegian dog trainer, came up with the term "calming signals" to refer to the appeasement behaviors dogs do. People will often coin these as submissive or deference behaviors. Many dogs will use this body language signs to de-escalate a...
I was recently honored to be a guest on the Grey Muzzle Diaries podcast, talking about BooBoo and Barbo, and even our dog before that, Bandit. Lindsay, the host, says her podcast is a place for senior dog owners and is a place for "practical tips, shared...
Six months ago I kissed my sweet BooBoo goodbye for the last time. Last week was her birthday. She would have been 16 and the day after that milestone was the 6 month anniversary of her passing. As I promised in my last grief update, I want to continue to...
Adopting a fearful dog from a puppy mill, hoarding situation or backyard breeder dog can be incredibly rewarding and very challenging. There's something to helping a fearful dog blossom into a confident, non-fearful dog. But, I get a lot of clients who are not...
If I asked most dog guardians if they liked their dog, they'd quickly reply something like "Of course, I love my dog!" But loving your dog isn't the same as liking your dog. Love and like are different psychological experiences, so it's possible to love your...
If you have a new dog and are online, you've no doubt come across the 3-3-3 rule for new dogs. This idea and various graphics of it circulate often, making the rounds on social media. I am unsure of the origin of this rule, but I suspect it started in the...
While this may not be a happy, joyful post, it's a necessary one. Please, bookmark this post for when you need it. I hope you don't need it any time soon, but when you do, come back here. And, be sure to share this post with friends who need it now. I am a...