When someone you know is grieving the loss of a beloved pet, it can be hard to know what to say, even if you've lost a pet before. You may feel nervous about saying the wrong thing, or unsure how to offer comfort to them...and maybe you just think staying silent is...
Behavior Suppression Is Not Behavior Modification. What do I mean by that? Here’s an analogy I often share with clients: If you break your arm and start crying, I might be able to slap you around enough to get you to stop crying. Just stopping those outward signs...
TV trainers have done a lot of damage over the last couple of decades, especially by promoting the idea that a “calm” dog is the ideal state we should expect at all times. Sure, I like calm dogs when they’re seniors who enjoy snoozing, or when a dog is...
It can be confusing for new puppy parents to know if their puppy is experiencing separation anxiety or normal "puppy stuff" since there can be a lot of crossover between the two. Puppies inherently have separation anxiety – vocalizing to reunite with mom or get...
Recently I submitted my one year grief update to The Pet Loss Companion podcast, because they had graciously shared my story about BooBoo shortly after she passed away, and I wanted to give them an update. My Lessons and Gratitude in Grief One Year in was...
Let me first start this post with my standard disclaimer: I AM NOT A VET. As a trainer who specializes in fear, aggression, reactivity and separation anxiety, I always ask clients about their dog's medical history and I'm always scanning for red flags that...
One of the most common things I hear from new clients—either on their intake forms or during our first consult—is this: "I think my dog is trying to protect me." Often, this belief comes up when a dog barks, growls, or even snaps at strangers or when certain...
The problem Do you live in a place where people leave their dogs in the yard all the time and all you hear is dogs barking? Sadly, in many places in the country, this is the norm and animal welfare being what it is, in most places if the dog has water and...
Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is one of the hardest decisions you’ll ever face. It’s emotional, painful, and deeply personal. That’s why I created “When Is It Time To Say Goodbye?”, a free downloadable guide designed to help you navigate this heartbreaking time...
When your dog is suffering from separation anxiety, it’s completely natural to want to do everything in your power to help them feel better. A quick internet search will turn up countless suggestions that promise fast results. But for dogs with true separation...
Last week, I was a guest on The Pet Loss Companion podcast (Episode #212) where I shared how fostering became an important part of my grief journey after losing Boo. I also talked about my self-paced course, Fostering 101: Fundamentals to Being a Successful...
I was recently honored to be a guest on the The Pet Loss Companion podcast, episode #212, talking about fostering, how fostering helped with my grief journey with BooBoo, and my self-paced course, Fostering 101: Fundamentals to Being a Successful...